"Immediately after you stand on the peak of a mountain you step forward and begin to climb a higher mountain which is down below" Kobun Chino
I am reading an insightful book entitled "The Answer To How Is Yes" by Peter Block. The title itself speaks volumes. The author says we should identify and commit to acting on what matters before we immediately start on the trail with the 'how' questions.
When I looked at the initially daunting peak of Machu Picchu, I was on the top of it before I figured out how to get there. I saw it one day and climbed it the next – sure, I had to find a guide, agree on a time, fit my water supplies, first aid kit, snacks and camera into a small backpack, etc. etc. However, I had already said "Yes" — Had I started with how long will it take, do I have the energy, how many others make it to the top, how do I do this alone without my sisters or friends, I would not have made a move! "How" can immobilize you if asked too soon – the answer to how is most often yes!
What mattered was that I really wanted to experience the "heart chakra of the earth."
'Be there' from right where you are!
Step forward!
mozella
Mozella Perry Ademiluyi
Motivational StoryTeller™
Thank you for these words. It’s great to feel that I’m not alone. I’ve always been a victim of “hows” and now finally at age 42 am learning to say yes before the how. And it makes things much easier. I love the way you explained it. It defines it exactly. So glad I found your blog. Bless you.
Anita
Thanks Anita,
I highly recommend the book The Answer To How Is Yes–it’s very insightful both personally and professionally. If you haven’t already, do join the Global Women Story Circle…we’ll be up and running soon — a great place to share stories and insights with like-minded women around the world!
warm regards,
mozella